Fuckwomen after breaking up
certain woman in my life wants to know what guys are thinking when a breakup goes down. The real question she wanted to ask is, “Why don’t guys talk about what they’re thinking when they breakup, either to friends or to the woman wronged? Because we are knuckle-dragging, gorilla Frankenstein’s with concrete cinder-blocks for hearts. I mean, I realize you probably hoped the answer would be, “We’re thinking about YOU! How much we regret everything we ever did to lose YOU!
How to fall in love again after a break up Learning to fall in love again is all about understanding the steps involved so you can heal yourself and feel better.There are healthy ways to deal with your grief, which is real and vaild, but there are also things that can trip you up and postpone healing. Create intentional space for a while and let yourself mourn the end of the relationship.Don’t lose heart: you will move on in time, find a love better suited for you, and all of this will be a memory. If your ex is pushing for friendship, stand your ground if you’re uncomfortable with the idea.A relationship can end when you least expect it, but that’s no reason to hate love or believe it doesn’t exist.Don’t convince yourself never to fall in love again. You’re only clinging on to a memory of love that you once experienced.And never, ever do something that could land you in legal trouble. There will be times when it’s important to communicate with an ex. Maybe you have to deal with a shared lease or pet custody. Instead of clinging to lost hope, find a wise friend who can help you walk through the reasons why you’re having a hard time letting go. Deep down, you know that you don’t want to be in a relationship with someone you had to beg to be with you. Take some time to refocus and pursue the things you’ve always loved to do.
(If you share the lease, deal with it like responsible adults. Resist the urge, however, to call or text whenever you would have when you were still dating. Ask a close friend if you can call him/her every time you would usually reach out to your ex. Besides, if your ex rejects you a second time, it won’t just hurt; the rejection will sting with extra humiliation and regret. No woman on her deathbed says, “I really wish I slept with my ex-husband one last time.” Let the break be clean.
Don’t lock him out.) The thrill of revenge only feeds bitterness and hatred. Recruit a support system of friends and family to help you fill the time normally spent with a significant other. Social media can be dangerous when dealing with heartache.
You may have been deeply wronged, but “getting even” won’t heal any wounds. Carry your head high and spend your energy on people who deserve it. Many people feel lost after a breakup; not because they miss their ex, but because so many of their daily habits once revolved around someone else. Give yourself two rules: Don’t post anything about the breakup drama online, no matter how vague, and resist the urge to stalk your ex. One major change in your life can inspire even more change.
Oh, I wish I had the courage to call YOU and tell YOU!
We don’t lobotomize ourselves, or erase you from our brain.
In the meantime, when mourning the end of a relationship, be sure to avoid the following “don’ts” of breakup etiquette, which can just end up harming you more. Right now, you’re not looking for a friend who looks exactly like the person who broke your heart.